Old posts on spiritual, family, parenting etc.

Mud and places

Well it feels like winter now anyway 🌧️, whether it starts on the solstice or 15th or whatever. We have steps outside the house now, which is nice: though the side is still a mud slip 'n' slide. Anyway I've updated my places page, which was looking a little sad.

2024-12-05

new start

We've moved into our new kitchen πŸ§‘β€πŸ³ this week. It was such a wonderful feeling to think that is our space now. And when I clean some Thing, it won't get building dust on it the next day 🧼.

2024-11-10

ennui

Not a word I use often, but it nestly describes my month at work πŸ˜•. I have somehow lost all inspiration and motivation.

2024-10-31

new city and in-laws

The kids have 2 weeks off school πŸŽ’ at the moment and the house extension is ongoing. We’ve escaped to the in-laws' new house in a new city. Its not the family favourite but washing dishes in the bath πŸ› at home...not great

2024-10-24

grace

I have a small view of God's generosity. Just had to say it. For the longest time, I believed God is good, but not kind...important difference there!

2024-10-11

church

I think I'm a bit disillusioned with church at the moment. Not my faith itself but with shallow 'churchianity' β›ͺ. Feel fairly disconnected and wihout significant relationships. Of course I play a part.

2024-09-27

time away

Lots of time at the beach and National Trust properties 🏯. Very nice to be away but starting to feel the pull of home. Not that I can quite face it yet. It's nice to be here at the sea 🌊; no church, no building work, no dust. But lots of sand lol.

2024-09-08

confrontation

Dealing with the building work πŸ”¨ at home has thrown into sharp relief how much I dread and avoid confrontation.

2024-09-03

peace in nature

Lovely visit to the Broads today. Soft lawns and still water with lillies ❀️. Boardwalks and diving terns Sleepy lawns.

2024-08-25

break

Wow, what a shock: this holiday park, or at least the caravan does not have wifi! I feel a little lost, but grateful to have some disconnection 😊. And within 100 m of beach dunes πŸ–. It's still got 5G so it's not, like, the dark ages.

This post along with the next few were drafted while on a long holiday. Sorry for the long pause!

2024-08-16

portable shade

Got a Pop-up Sun shelter ⛺️ from Decathlon. So cool! I was learning about UV risks recently β˜€οΈβ˜€οΈ. It's worse than I realised! This is a neat solution. #themoreyouknow

2024-08-03

expat life

I haven't lived in the USA since I was 14. Yet here I am... paying an accountant πŸ’° to help me figure out Enough of this Byzantine tax system to avoid severe punishment. Not that I ever actually earn enough to owe anything πŸ™„!

2024-07-29

seasonality

Good day out with the family on Sat πŸš— and a BBQ on Sunday. It's good for days, weeks and months to have their ups and downs, a seasonality. I am getting better at thinking about my day and aiming for a bit of time (the "golden hour" πŸ”₯) before bed. Not very consistent about it though.

2024-07-15

colouring

Sitting with the kids and doodling and colouring 🎨. So nice to slow down and do something together.

2024-07-02

cost of living

Have to both work as parents to support our family now. It's a load of crap πŸ’°πŸ’°.

Juggling kids and work is emotionally exhausting. I really feel for single parents now.

2024-06-24

concrete pour

Concrete has been poured for our new home extension today πŸ‘·β€β™‚οΈ. I'm actually stressing out about it as pipes are leaking and it's raining off and on 😟. I need to let it go.

2024-06-04

disconnection

Sitting outside, really enjoying The sunshine β˜€οΈ and the space the kids have in a big park. But I still feel a bit of a loss without my phone with me πŸ“±.

Probably a good thing I don't have it!

2024-05-31

can-hit-game

Was remembering a game I used to play with friends as a teen.

  1. Place an empty drinks can on a Stick
  2. and take turns hitting it with a bat 🏏, watching it fly across the grass.
  3. Repeat until the can splits in two.

Lots of good times.

2024-05-22

easter

Such fun seeing the kids hunt for Easter eggs πŸ₯š. Makes me kinda wish I had an old camcorder like my dad did when I was little. Now it’s just short clips on the phone.

First published 2024-03-30